Consider that another reason you may be drawn to emotionally unavailable partners is that some part of you is also unavailable. Perhaps you consciously want commitment, but deep down you fear true intimacy, losing your sense of self in the relationship, or getting hurt.

How do you tell if a man is emotionally available?

Here are a few signs to know that your significant other is definitely emotionally available.He keeps his promise. He wont force you to do things you dont want to do. He shows that he cares. Hes happy to talk. He has a support system. He isnt stuck in the past. He shares his feelings. Hes honest.More items •Jan 4, 2019