How do you start a conversation on match com?

The easiest way to start a conversation with anyone new is to ask a question, so include one. Tailor it to their interests or their work, or even one of their photos. Ask open questions that require more than a yes or no reply, because these are more interesting to answer.

Can anyone message you on match?

You can even send likes and messages for free. Match.com provides limited chat features to its free members — just to give them a taste of flirtation. Free members cannot initiate a conversation, but they can read and respond to some messages from their mutual matches.

Who should message first on Match?

#1 Once You Match, Who Messages First? Either person can message first on Tinder, but some women wait for the man to reach out first. If youre swiping and match, its okay to send your first message right then. Its also okay to wait a few hours or days if youre genuinely tied up.