Too much tongue is an oft-reported kissing turnoff for women. A great first kiss will involve mostly lip-to-lip contact, and when you do decide to reveal it, your tongue should be tentatively probing hers rather than swishing around her mouth or repeatedly darting in and out of it.

What is a reasonable age for your first kiss?

Around ages 12-15, people often start having their first kiss. Dont feel pressured by other people your age kissing people, and dont rush into kissing someone if you are apprehensive. Youll know intuitively when the time feels right.