Is my partner afraid of commitment?

Your Partner May Have Been Hurt in the Past One common reason behind your partners fear of commitment is that they had a painful past relationship. In other words, by keeping your relationship with each other casual, they wont be vulnerable to heartache again.

What does commitment issues look like in a relationship?

Signs that someone has commitment issues. Avoiding making future plans with your partner. Avoiding talking or thinking about the future of the relationship. Serious or long-term relationships are always out of the question. Lack of emotional attachment.