Many times, people are ready to start seriously dating anywhere from six months to a year after a major breakup, but it still largely depends on the length of time they spent in the relationship, Alexis Nicole White, an author and relationship expert, tells Bustle.

How long should you wait to start dating after a breakup?

If you are struggling with mixed emotions and indecisiveness over dating after a breakup, waiting for 3-4 months and giving yourself the time to recover from heartbreak is recommended. Use this time as an opportunity to understand your inner motivations and admit to yourself what you want in a relationship.

How long does it take for a guy to get over a breakup?

Studies suggest that people start to feel better around three months post-breakup. One study found it takes three months and 11 days before the average American feels ready to date again after a major breakup.

Does a man hurt after a breakup?

Men hurt, women hurt when the familiar feeling of happiness is suddenly snatched from them due to a breakup. Even when the breakup is expected, the grieving process often still plays out. A British study, reported here, has claimed that men suffer more long-lasting pain from breakups than women.

How fast do guys move on?

Theres a reason for this, according to new data from Matchs Singles in America survey: Guys just get over breakups faster. Match surveyed more than 5,000 men and women and found that half of dudes are over a rejection in a month, while the average woman takes four months to get over it. Yup, that sounds about right.