While it is generally recognized that co-parenting can provide additional comfort and stability for young children after a divorce, experts suggest that spending too much time together after a divorce can have some potentially-negative effects as well.

Is it good for kids to see divorced parents together?

Its always good for kids to see their divorced parents getting along. Seeing two divorced parents getting along well might cause their kids to believe that their parents may very well get back together again.

How do you separate the time between divorced parents?

2-2-3 Routines. Like a biweekly routine, schedules with a 2-2-3 rotation enables parents to split time with their kids 50/50. In each routine, each parent would have their kids for a couple of days, then they would go to be with the other parent for a couple of days, and the cycle continues from there.

Whats best for kids during divorce?

Encourage your kid to seek their own sources of support. Some schools, religious institutions, or community organizations provide support groups for children of divorced parents. Its important for them to have a friend they confide in, especially someone whos been through a divorce. Finally, ease up on yourself.