Encouraging kids of this age to pair off and to act like boyfriend and girlfriend is not advisable. Many parents think its cute when younger kids mimic the boyfriend/girlfriend behaviors of older adolescents and adults, but its not appropriate or healthy for kids this age to spend time with each other exclusively.

Should a 8 year old have a boyfriend?

There is no law about when you are old enough to have a girlfriend or boyfriend, unlike the age of consent. You need to know your child well, because some children may be ready for a relationship at 12 but another not until they are 17.

Is it normal for an 8 year old to have a crush?

Be Gentle. A first crush can be a really big deal for your young child, and from what Ive experienced with my 8 kids, they are usually very excited to share that they have a special new someone in their lives. Let them know that having a crush is totally normal and healthy.

Should I let my 9 year old daughter have a boyfriend?

Nine is far too young to be having a solitary, romantic boyfriend or girlfriend. Kids at this age and stage are not equipped to handle the complexities and intense emotions of an exclusive boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

Is it OK for a 9 year old to have a crush?

Its perfectly normal for boys and girls to start liking each other during the preteen years. Its very new, so it might feel awkward or strange. Its also fine if kids feel too young to get involved in this lovey-dovey stuff. The good news is that almost all kids think girls and boys can be friends.

What age is appropriate for a child to have a cell phone?

The average age kids get a phone is between 12 and 13. With that in mind, parents are the best judge of whether their children are ready for a cell phone, and the lessons they teach about that readiness can begin at a young age.