In Virginia, it is illegal for an adult (someone 18 or older) to have sex with a minor (someone younger than 18), even if the sex is consensual. Those who break the law have committed statutory rape.

Is it okay for a 17 year old to date a 21 year old?

Absolutely. There is no law that prevents the two of you from dating (as in going to the movies, walking in the park, etc). However, if what youre really asking is if its legal for a 17 year old to have sex with a 21 year old the answer is “It depends”.

What is the age limit for dating in Virginia?

The Age of Consent in Virginia The age of consent for intercourse is 15 years old in Virginia; however, there are other sex acts that set the age at 18.