But when it comes to saying I love you for the first time, the general consensus is definitely to say it (not just show it). “For many women, its important that their partner speak the words to them first because its important to hear an escalation of the relationship, Dr. Chloe says.

Should I say I love you first or wait?

In general, if two people love each other, it doesnt matter who says I love you first. If youre not sure whether your partner feels the same way you do, you can still tell them how you feel—just be mindful of why youre doing it.

Is it bad if I always say I love you first?

There is nothing quite as awful as being the one to always says “I love you” first. When you say “I love you” enough, with only a “love you, too” in response, the words start to lose their meaning. You start to wonder if your partner even means them.