According to data from Tinder, Only 1.4 percent of women say that women should send the first message compared to 9.8 percent of men who say the same. However, receiving a message from someone youve matched with is likely welcome attention, since you did match with them, after all!

Do guys or girls text first on Tinder?

Either person can message first on Tinder, but some women wait for the man to reach out first. If youre swiping and match, its okay to send your first message right then. Its also okay to wait a few hours or days if youre genuinely tied up.

Do girls ever text first Tinder?

Either person can message first on Tinder, but some women wait for the man to reach out first. If youre swiping and match, its okay to send your first message right then.