How do you know if he doesnt want to date you?

7 Strong Signs He Doesnt Want a Relationship With YouHes hot and cold with his communication. He only texts you. He still has baggage from a past relationship. Hes not meeting you halfway. He doesnt want to hang with you outside of the bedroom. He doesnt introduce you to his friends and family.More items •1 Nov 2018

Why does he keep contacting me if he doesnt want a relationship?

If your guy keeps you around, it might be because he cant break those habits, as theyve become so ingrained in the fabric of his life that he doesnt want to let them go. As a result, he wont let you go either, which only leaves you confused and upset.