The speed of someones response will depend on their online dating site habits and their level of interest in a match. So, when communicating with a match its best to wait at least seven to ten days for a response.

How long after a match should you message?

Either person can message first on Tinder, but some women wait for the man to reach out first. If youre swiping and match, its okay to send your first message right then. Its also okay to wait a few hours or days if youre genuinely tied up.

Why you should not reply right away?

In terms of texting, replying too soon (although great at first) over time can cause the other person to start to see you as less value. This results in the person having less of an urge to text you.

Can you match with someone who Unmatched you?

If that happens, you have the option to unmatch the user from your Tinder. They will never be able to undo this action or resend you the match request once you have unmatched them from your Tinder list. Whatever the reasons are, note that you cannot match the person you have unmatched on Tinder.