Many times, people are ready to start seriously dating anywhere from six months to a year after a major breakup, but it still largely depends on the length of time they spent in the relationship, Alexis Nicole White, an author and relationship expert, tells Bustle. At that point, you may realize youre ready to date.

How long after a split should you date?

Most people need a month or two to process the breakup, to mourn, and to integrate lessons before jumping back in if they were in a fairly serious relationship, she says. If you dated someone for a year or more, you may need three to four months.

Can a relationship work after a split?

A relationship can work after a breakup. Even after multiple breakups! Breakups are no walk in the park, I know. But Ill tell you that if youre both willing to do your parts, you can absolutely get back together and make it work differently this time around!

How do you start dating after a break up?

9 Tips For Dating Again After A Bad Breakup, According To ExpertsHave A Positive Mindset. Reflect On What You Do And Dont Want In A Partner. Take Time To Heal. Dont Compare Dates To Your Ex. Take Things Slow. Focus On Things Besides Dating, Too. Set Realistic Expectations. Dont Talk About Your Ex/The Breakup On A Date.More items