“Four to five days of chatting before you initiate the date is often the sweet spot. It gives you enough time to build that foundation of trust, but its not so long that the momentum drops off.”

How long should you wait before asking someone out?

In practical terms, usually between one and two weeks. Any longer than that and shell think youre just there to chat with her and kill some time. Finally, the longer you wait to ask a girl out, the more chances she has to meet with someone else she could fall for.

How do you confirm a first date?

Now, lets dive in and figure out how to confirm a date without sounding desperate.Use the straightforward approach. Include specifics. Use positive assumptions. Pay attention to timing. Build the anticipation. Keep her posted. If she asks to reschedule, be graceful.