How long should you date someone you dont see a future with?

Three months should be enough time to get used to the person and take an objective view if they are someone you can be with long-term, Chong tells Elite Daily. If you just arent feeling it, then its OK to let them go at this point.

Can you be in love with someone but not see a future with them?

But the reality is, you can still be in a relationship that has no future even if you truly love each other. We are told as we grow up, that once you find someone you love all will be well, Melissa Divaris Thompson, LMFT, tells Bustle.