Sometimes we pick the wrong guy because we feel “blah” and not very interesting to others. Someone may feel bored and living a “lackluster” life, so they want more excitement in their routine and choose the wrong guy.

Why do I go for the wrong guys?

Another reason women keep falling for the wrong guys is that they simply havent met the right person. For instance, perhaps youre not truly putting yourself out there, havent made dating a priority, or feel a bit discouraged because of the different dudes (or more appropriately, duds) youve dated thus far.

Why do I fall in love with the wrong guy?

We fall in love with the wrong people when were so wrapped up in our illusions that we become blind to the true character of the people we become intimate with. In this situation, its like were using a person, any available person we can cling on to feed some dream or ideal which they may never be able to satisfy.