You should text him first if, youre reaching out to him to genuinely connect and communicate with him. If for any reason youre texting him based on worry, fear or anxiety. Such as, trying to “keep his interest” or manipulating him to do something for you.

When you should wait for him to text?

In other words, not in for a great start. So if you havent been on a date with him, wait at least two days before you respond to his first text. Then make sure that you dont respond to his every text within 5 seconds.

When should you not text him first?

When Not to Text Him FirstWhen youre drunk. When youre upset. When youve already texted him. When you know hes with friends. When he knows youre with friends. When you dont really have anything to say. When your date only ended 5 minutes ago.14 Jun 2019