Is it always bad to be a hopeless romantic? Theres nothing wrong with being a hopeless romantic, someone who believes in true love, appreciates romance, and wants the fairy-tale type of relationship, Allen says. The problem with being a hopeless romantic comes from a lack of awareness of being one.

Whats wrong with being a hopeless romantic?

The problem with being a hopeless romantic comes from a lack of awareness of being one. If youre someone who falls hard for whoever youre dating, meaning youre planning and fantasizing about the future from the beginning, and you dont have the awareness that youre doing that, it can get you into trouble.