Between outbreaks, its OK to have sex, as long as your partner understands and accepts the risk that they may contract herpes. For example, as long as you dont have herpes sores on your mouth, you can perform oral sex on your partner, including when you have an outbreak of genital symptoms.

Will anyone ever love me if I have herpes?

Some people feel like their love lives are over when they find out they have herpes, but its just not true. People with herpes have romantic and sexual relationships with each other, or with partners who dont have herpes.

Is dating someone with herpes a big deal?

In short, you shouldnt think of herpes as a big deal because it isnt. Treated and managed with the right care and attitude, genital herpes shouldnt limit your ability to date, meet new people or enjoy a relatively normal sex life.